To forgive completely, you must
release yourself from accepting the sins of your spouse. And, you must detach
from the thoughts you are feeling from the sin your spouse committed. If you do
this wholeheartedly you will be able to forgive them. See Free E-book on
Forgiving an unfaithful spouse.
Remember that only discussing a
problem with your spouse doesn't necessarily free you from the feelings of
bitterness and resentment. You must forgive your spouse from within yourself to
be free in heart, mind and soul. .
When you allow yourself freedom from
another's burden, your spirit awakens from within and allows you to use it for
the good in every aspect of your life. Because you are free to be yourself
without allowing your emotions to dictate your actions.